Sins Churches are Comfortable With

Originally posted July 19, 2010.  Reposted September 14, 2011.

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Craig Groeschel of LifeChurch.tv, often says, “We’ll, do anything short of sin to reach people for Christ.”  I’d like for us to consider that statement for a minute.  More specifically, I want us to consider the outcome if that statement is not true of all churches.

If a church is not willing to “anything short of sin to reach people for Christ”, that means they are willing to stop short of reaching people for Christ.  Sadly, I’ve seen this in too many churches all over the world.

We Christians allow the silliest things to stop us short of reaching people for Christ:

  • Musical styles
  • Out-dated traditions
  • The size of facilities
  • Small-thinking about growth
  • The belief that our church is “big enough”
  • The notion that the staff is responsible for evangelism
  • Slow decision-making processes
  • The length of our services
  • The lack of good kid’s ministry
  • Lack of money

If churches don’t embrace and live out the phrase, “We will do anything, short of sin, to reach people for Christ”, then they are willing to sin by not reaching people for Christ.  Frankly, that’s a scary place to be!

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The Foundational Issue in Small Group Ministry

In 2005 when I started as the LifeGroups pastor on LifeChurch.tv’s biggest campus we were running about 5500 people and had 181 LifeGroups.  22 months later we were running about 6000 people and had 544 LifeGroups.  After that I became the Executive Director of LifeGroups and was responsible for all group ministries on all 13 campuses.  By 2009 the small group ministry had grown on all campuses to over 1100 small groups.

Our strategy for growth was nothing original to us. We leveraged the campaign method that Saddleback innovated during the 40 Days of Purpose movement. Twice per year our pastor, Craig Groeschel, would have a group-centric series. We’d provide video curriculum for leaders, ask everyone to get in a group, and it worked well for us.

Although I couldn’t articulate it at the time, looking back I see one key principle that gave us the most success:  we structured the small group ministry for numerical growth rather than control. I once heard Rick Warren say “You can structure for growth or you can structure for control, but you can’t structure for both.” That statement helped me recognize that we habitually structured for growth. Whenever growth would stall, it was because we were trying to structure for control.

Here’s what I mean: Structuring for growth means removing obstacles that inhibit growth. The results of such methods are explosive numerical expansion which is exciting, but messy. Structuring for control means putting some barriers in place that will slow numerical increase, but the trade off is less chaos.

Here are some examples:

  • Structuring for growth: “Anyone can start a LifeGroup. Just signup online, pick up your DVD and press play.” Tons of people will step up, but (as you can imagine) this is pretty chaotic.
  • Structuring for control: “Only people who are members of the church and have completed a 6-part training series may start a LifeGroup.” Far fewer people can or will start a group, but the results are more stable.
  • Structure for growth: Setting the bar low on the front end and raising it relationally on the back end. Anyone could start a group, but everyone was assigned a coach who would work with them for a season to help them succeed. The “secret sauce” here is the relationships between coaches and new leaders.
  • Structure for control: Setting the bar high on the front end and maintaining it systematically. Only the few who complete the necessary steps can start a group. Then they are required to fill out attendance reports, go to annual training events, etc. The “secret sauce” here is quality and attractive training methods.

 

No church swings 100% either way. Every church wants to grow, but there are some things that have to be controlled (you MUST control who can work with children, for example). However, looking back at LifeChurch.tv and looking at the other churches I’ve worked with in consulting, I’ve seen that the most effective churches are those who intentionally choose to err on one side or the other.

On one side of the equation we find Community Christian Church in Chicago has one of the most tightly controlled small group models anywhere, and they are very happy with it. The result is that after 25+ years, they have a remarkably healthy and large group ministry.  On the other side of this equation we find Saddleback who errs on the side of growth and they have more people in groups than they have in Sunday worship attendance.

There’s something positive about both approaches, but on some level, growth and control are what I call “competing values.” The key for every group ministry is to decide which of those values is more in step with your church’s DNA, and choosing to err on that side. Churches that struggle with their small group ministries are trying too hard to mix the oil and water of growth and control. They need to pick which one fits them best and lean in that direction most often. This does not mean that you should throw the baby out with the bath water! Saddleback has controls in place, but they are very strategically selected and they are few. More often than not, they choose growth. CCC in Chicago has a growing small group ministry, but it’s taken them a quarter of a century to build it through a highly controlled approach. More often than not they choose control.  Both approaches work, but only when a church sells out to one side of the equation.

All that to say, at LifeChurch.tv our small group ministry erred on the side of growth most often and the result was quick numerical increase and a large number of people participating in groups.

Which side of the growth/control equation seems to jive best with your church?  How have you seen the two values of growth and control compete?

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Stubborn, Foolish People

Originally posted July 12, 2010.  Reposted September 12, 2011.

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In my devotional time I’ve been reading through the New Testament in The Message translation and I’m finally in the last book:  Revelation.  This is a tough book to read.  Symbolism, the apocalypse, judgement, death, and suffering are common themes in many of its chapters..  Because of this, its easy to read a chapter or two in Revelation and walk away without feeling motivated or inspired.

Today was different.  I read two chapters about plagues that would harm the earth and kill billions of people; it was kinda depressing.  Then I read:

The remaining men and women who weren’t killed by these weapons went on their merry way— didn’t change their way of life, didn’t quit worshiping demons, didn’t quit centering their lives around lumps of gold and silver and brass, hunks of stone and wood that couldn’t see or hear or move. ~Rev 9:20 (MSG)

After reading about plagues and suffering, this verse stood out to me.  Why?  Because it reminds me of myself.

How many times have I finished a semester in the “school of hard knocks” only to return on my “merry way” and not change my way of life?  Too often.  Painful times should draw us to God, but all too often they don’t.  Too often, we survive a painful season and still center our lives around lumps of gold, silver, brass, stone and wood (material things), rather than centering our lives around God.

The chief lesson taught in the “school of hard knocks” is that we should trust and serve God only.  Because we don’t learn this lesson, we are stubborn, foolish people.  Sometimes I think I’m the stubbornest and most foolish of us all.

Lord, teach me to depend wholly on You rather than things.  Change my stubbornness into teachability.  Change my foolishness into faith.  A-men

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Small Group Mission Projects: Why I Hate Them

Yes, I used strong language in the title of this post. No, I don’t hate missional small groups. What I hate are small group mission projects.  Why?  Because they’re PROJECTS.

What’s a project? It’s a short-term activity designed to accomplish a goal.  There’s nothing intrinsically wrong with a small group mission project, after all they serve people who are in need.  However, they tend to have a tragic side effect:  a sense of being “done.”

Are people meant to be projects? Are people meant to be goals? Is mission ever truly “done?” No, no, and uh…NO!

When small groups do mission projects they can easily miss the point of mission: relationship. Jesus didn’t die for projects or goals. He died so people could experience relationship with God. When done right, mission not only offers people a relationship with God, but it creates relationships between those on mission and those being served.

Seldom will a person become a Christ-follower because a group of people mowed their lawn once. Seldom will someone choose to surrender to Christ because someone painted their fence one weekend. Most people will follow Jesus because they saw Christ’s love being lived out over time by people they know.

If your small group is going to be on mission, try not to just identify projects.  Try instead to identify people you can get to know.  Serve them, love them, help them, do life with them.

Sounds a lot riskier than just mowing a lawn doesn’t it? You’re right. It is risky. Jesus took the greatest risk of all by dying for our sins, I think we can risk the messiness of relationships with unpredictable people. The sterile nature of “projects” is just not risky enough for my taste.

Okay, my rant is done…but our mission is not.

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Churches Designed To Die

Originally posted 08-02-2010.  Reposted 08-26-2011.

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I’ll never forget reading Brad Powell’s Change Your Church For Good:  The Art of Sacred Cow Tipping. It made me weep.  I wept because Brad accurately described so many churches I know and have been a part of.  They are churches who were once effectively reaching people, but they crept into decline.

I was reading the book on an airplane and looked out the window at the city below.  Within eyeshot there were hundreds of thousands of people living without the hope of Jesus.  Also within my view there were many churches like the ones described above.  It was too much for me to bear and I began to cry.  The guy next to me thought I was nuts, but I didn’t care.

Why do churches decline?  Why do churches lose their effectiveness and forget their mission? Powell answers those questions insightfully so I won’t try to answer them here.  I will say this though:  no one started any of those churches with the hope that they would one day plateau and decline.  No one started those churches desiring that they would lose sight of their vision and mission.  No one planted their churches designing them to die.  Rather, people made tremendous sacrifices to start those churches so that they would each be “the getting saved place”.

Let us never forget why the church exists.  It doesn’t exist to meet the needs of a fattening congregation.  The church exists for the same reason that Jesus came to earth:  to reach a dying and hurting world.  Let us recall our heritage of evangelism and doing whatever it takes to reach people who don’t know Jesus.  Let us fall on our knees broken before a Holy God and repent of our self centered sin.  Let us all again make each of our churches “the getting saved place.”

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3 Things all Leaders MUST do Well

Originally Posted July 15, 2010. Reposted August 23, 2011

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A friend of mine at Life Way, Rick Howerton, reviewed my Triple-Threat Leadership eBook on his blog and he sent me a few questions.  I wrote out my answers and sent them back last night, but one of his questions really stood out to me.  Today, I thought I’d share it, and my answer, with you.

Rick: There has been so much written on leadership, what sets your work,  Triple-Threat Leadership, apart from other leadership ideologies?

Alan: The trend in leadership books/talks today is for experts to say, “Don’t focus on your weaknesses, just leverage your strengths.”  While I agree with this in principle, in practice it’s not always realistic.  I believe there are three skills that all leaders, regardless of their job title, organization size, or experience must have: (1) casting vision, (2) executing strategy, and (3) fostering relationships.  Leaders who learn do do all three will always succeed.  All leaders are going to be better at one or two of these skills, but their leadership will be incomplete unless they learn to do the other one or two they do less-well.   Triple-Threat Leadership is not about focusing on your weaknesses, and it’s not about doing all things well.  It’s about doing THREE things well.  Leaders who learn these three things succeed: they become “Triple-Threat Leaders”.

Click here to get your copy of Triple-Threat Leadership.

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FREE Last Minute Upgrades for Your Small Groups Campaign

While I was at LifeChurch.tv I got to experience 8 church-wide small group campaigns…it was awesome and we learned a TON!! Because so many people return to churches all over the world in September and January, many churches run their small group campaigns during those months.  If your church is one of those, below are a few last minute ideas and free tools that might add some value to your church’s campaign.

  1. Add LEADER Training Videos To Your DVD Curriculum.  Most small group campaigns include free DVD curriculum for small group leaders. So why not take advantage of the tremendous amount of space available on a DVD to add some training? Simply add additional menus on the DVD with some training videos. Every small group ministry leader has struggled getting group leaders trained, so sending training to the leaders is a valid solution. By adding a few short videos that answer leaders’ frequently asked questions, you are putting training directly in their hands!  Now you’re thinking, “I don’t have time to shoot leader training videos.” That’s okay, use these videos from Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, Kentucky. Bill Search, the small group pastor at SECC, sent this link to me and asked me to pass it on to church leaders.  Bill says this is a free resource for all churches.  Feel free to download the videos and use them however you wish. Choose the videos that you think are best for your leaders and add them to your DVDs.
  2. Add GROUP Training To Your DVD Curriculum. Leader training is not the only training problem in small group ministry. A frequently overlooked problem is the fact that group members don’t know how to be good group members. So how do you train group members?  Adding a short 90 second (or so) video on the front end of each week’s video curriculum can teach group members a few things they should expect from one another.  Here are 4 videos that we put on DVD our curriculum at LifeChurch.tv. One video would automatically play right before week’s curriculum.  1) Building Trust  2) Promoting Spiritual Growth  3) Developing Relationships 4) Being Intentional. Download these videos using www.savetube.com and add them to your DVDs. TIP: if you don’t call your groups “Life Groups” then simply re-record your own voice-over. Click here to download the scripts for these videos.
  3. Provide Invite Cards for Group Leaders. It’s important to equip your group leaders with tools to help them get new people in their groups. Personal invite cards are a simple way to help your leaders out. Here are some pdf templates that you can give your leaders so they can fill in the appropriate information, print out the cards, and hand them to potential group members. BlueGrayNavyRedInstructions. Be sure to provide the instructions to your leaders!  TIP:  If you want to change the format or color of these files, you may do so using Adobe Designer.

Providing these three tools can help make your already awesome small group campaign even better.  Go ahead…turn up the dial to 11!!

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The Biggest Obstacle Between You and What You Want

Originally posted June 22, 2010. Reposted August 9, 2011.
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When you’re pursuing something you really want, it often seems like there’s something standing in the way.  Sometimes it seems like unseen forces are stopping you from getting what you want.  It feels like all the forces of the universe are conspiring to hold you back.

Consider this thought for a moment:  the greatest obstacle between you and what you want may be the very thing(s) that you want.  What do I mean?  The Apostle Peter says it far better than I ever could:

Since Jesus went through everything you’re going through and more, learn to think like him. Think of your sufferings as a weaning from that old sinful habit of always expecting to get your own way. Then you’ll be able to live out your days free to pursue what God wants instead of being tyrannized by what you want.   1 Peter 4:1-2 (The Message)

Think of the thing(s) you so desperately want to acquire or achieve.  Then ask God to reveal if His desire for your life is different than your desire.  If you find that His desires and yours don’t align, spend the next week fasting and praying to discover what God wants and pursue that instead.  There is no better or safer place to be than in the center of God’s will for your life.

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We Don’t Need Any More Training

Originally posted June 30, 2010. Reposted August 2, 2011.

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Sadly, in the down-turned economy, organizations are cutting out one of their most important budget items:  training.  It’s natural to start cutting things from the budget when the economy is bad, but training should never be cut.  I mean NEVER.  In fact, in a struggling financial environment, training should be increased.  McDonald’s proves this point perfectly.

I have three young boys, so we eat plenty of McDonald’s.  My normal McDonald’s experience involves walking into a semi-clean restaurant full of grumpy-looking employees who obviously wish they were elsewhere.   I walk across a restaurant with my feet sticking to the floor, look up at the menu and ponder my order.  Then the cashier stares blankly at me and mumbles, “Can I help you?”

I think to myself, “Can?  Can?  How hard is it to train your employees to speak proper English?  It’s ‘MAY I help you?’ Ugh!”  Pushing my inner dialog aside, I place my order and ask the employee to hold the onions.

The cashier looks at me with wide eyes, not saying a word.

“Please hold the onions,” I say again.

The staring continues.

With more than a little frustration in my voice I say, “No Onions!”

“Que?” Is the response I hear from behind the counter.

Thankfully, I’ve found a McDonald’s that provides quite a different experience.  The McDonald’s on east main street in Yukon, Oklahoma is very different.  The employees are polite, alert, helpful, and they speak English.  The floors are clean, as are the Bathrooms.  It’s a fair drive for me to go to that McDonald’s, but I’ve decided that the drive is worth it.

What makes this McDonald’s so much better than the others in my area?  Training.  The owner of this particular franchise cares enough to spend money on training his employees.  They are trained in leadership, customer service, and how to create positive environments.  As a result, they seem to enjoy their jobs and they provide a great customer experience.  The best thing of all, for the owner, is that the money spent on training translates to more money in the cash registers!

Whether you’re in business or ministry, don’t cut training!!  The end result of cutting training is cutting financial dividends, effectiveness and growth. Cutting training is like cutting off a perfectly healthy leg.

Today’s post was inspired by this article.

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Only 3 Ways to Lead The Church

Last week I was reviewing some notes I’d taken back in 2001 at a church planter training event.  I didn’t note the name of the person speaking, but something this person said really stood out to me so I wrote it down:

There are only three ways to lead the church:

  1. Risk Taker
  2. Care Taker
  3. Under Taker
  • Risk takers put their faith in God and say, “Whatever it takes.”
  • Care takers put their faith in opinions and say, “Whatever the people want.”
  • Under takers talk about their faith in the past and reminisce saying, “Whatever went wrong?”

Seeing those points I’d noted so long ago really got me thinking. Every church has a preference for Risk Takers, Care Takers or Under Takers.  I’ve worked in vocational ministry since 1990 and I’ve served on staff in all three of these environments.

Today I’m inspired to tell you a parable about a church who lived under all three kinds of leadership:

There was once a church that was planted to reach people who did not know Jesus. They started the church under leaders who were Risk Takers. Reaching the lost was the highest goal and taking risks to reach that end was praiseworthy and exciting. The church grew and God was doing great things among the people.

15 years later, taking risks became harder. After all, the church had much more to risk. They had more people, buildings, money and materials than they had when they started 15 years prior. Now it seemed that risking money, facilities, things and people was somehow “irresponsible.” Eventually they shifted into Care Taker mode. Maintaining the status quo and satisfying the people became the most important goals.

20 years later the church was a beautiful picture of what had once been. The buildings were reminders of the great things God had done there. The members got together regularly to celebrate all their church had done. It was always such fun to reminisce about the history of the church. They loved recalling the days when hundreds of children roamed the halls, when the baptistery was used every week,  when people were coming to Christ every time the pastor spoke.

But those times had passed and the halls became considerably less busy. The kid’s rooms had mostly been converted into “adult educational space” and the average age of the parishioners had gone up considerably. Without being conscious of it, the church had slipped into Under Taker mode.  To keep the people happy, changes had all but disappeared. The church had frozen in time, but the members hadn’t. They continued to age…and eventually die…one…by…one. Where weddings were once a regular occurrence, now funerals dominated the scene.

The common denominator in ALL growing churches is this:  Leadership that is not afraid to believe God for the impossible! Those leaders consistently take risks believing that God will take care of the results.  The only way for a church to continually avoid Care Taker and Under Taker mode is to always change and always take risks for the sake of reaching the lost. Leaders must remember that anything else puts the church into a slow, steady decline and eventual death. Take risks. Stretch your faith. Without such things, the consequences are catastrophic.

So those now who live by faith are blessed along with Abraham, who lived by faith— this is no new doctrine! And that means that anyone who tries to live by his own effort, independent of God, is doomed to failure.

~Gal 3:9-10 (MSG)

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