Originally posted 06-21-09.  Reposted 06-17-10

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Fathers have to be careful because they can do a lot of damage.  Here’s a list of the damage my Dad has done and continues to do:

My Dad damages the status quo. My dad, the appliance repairman, always works with integrity.  He never cheats anyone or lies about the work he’s done.  He never over charges a customer.  His integrity is more important than making more money.

My Dad damages his future business opportunities. He does this by giving each customer a small pamphlet with their receipt.  This pamphlet tells them about God’s love and how they can experience it through Jesus.  Some people might be offended, but he is more concerned with their eternal destiny than their temporary opinions.

My Dad damages people’s expectations. He didn’t spend every Sunday watching sports on the couch like the stereotypical father.  He spent every Sunday at church.  He served as a Deacon and a 5th grade children’s teacher for most of my life.  He took me with him and showed me what it meant to serve God and His church with passion.

My Dad damages his “free time”. Owning his own business, Dad doesn’t have much free time, but when we were growing up he spent much of it with me and my sister.  He didn’t watch TV, rather he read to us and told us stories.  He took us on long drives in the mountains and showed us God’s beautiful creation.

My Dad damages his chances with the ladies. Only one lady matters to my Dad.  My mother is his only romantic interest.  He has always been faithful to her and taught me to do the same.  In a world where most husbands have at least one extra-marital affair, my Dad remains true.

My Dad damages me. He messed me up and still does.  I could have turned out like the world expects, but he shaped me in such a way that I can’t fit that mold.  To this day he still challenges me spiritually and holds me to the highest of God’s standards!

Truth be told, I’m grateful for all the damage my Dad has done because it’s the best kind of damage.  By imitating his Heavenly Father, my Dad damaged sin, sorrow, and Satan’s plan.  He gained ground for God’s Kingdom and he continues to do so today.

My Dad is nearly 80 years old now.  When I’m 80 I hope to look back and see that I’ve done at least half the damage that my Dad did.  If I can do that, I’ll feel like I’ve done well.

Have a Happy Father’s day this Sunday, Dad!  I love you and I’m proud to be your son!